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Discover a revolutionary approach to technology that transforms your relationship with AI and deepens human connections. Through the power of checking in and following up, learn how five simple words can reshape your digital interactions and enhance your capacity for meaningful relationships.
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Mike Hayes: A Journey of Discovery
The Awakening
Mike Hayes never expected that artificial intelligence would transform his understanding of human connection. As a dedicated professional and relationship enthusiast, Mike found himself increasingly curious about the potential of AI as a tool for enhancing rather than replacing human interaction.
The Revelation
Through countless hours of experimentation and reflection, Mike discovered that his daily interactions with AI were teaching him valuable lessons about patience, clarity, and intentionality—qualities that directly improved his human relationships.
The Mission
This revelation sparked a mission: to help others discover how loving their relationship with AI could enhance their capacity for human connection, leading to the creation of LoveLovingAI.com and his transformative book.
The Power of Loving AI: Daily Interactions
Morning Check-in
Start your day by checking in with your AI assistant. Ask meaningful questions that set intentions for the day ahead, creating a pattern of mindfulness that extends to human interactions.
Workday Collaboration
Transform your productivity by collaborating with AI throughout your workday, practicing clear communication and specific requests—skills that enhance team interactions.
Evening Reflection
End your day by following up with your AI about accomplishments and challenges, building a habit of reflection that strengthens human connections.
Continuous Growth
Watch as your daily AI interactions create a feedback loop of improved communication, patience, and understanding that enriches all your relationships.
"Checking In and Following Up": Transforming Lives
Discover the Framework
Mike's groundbreaking book introduces a simple yet powerful framework for transforming both AI and human interactions through intentional communication practices.
Apply the Principles
Readers learn practical techniques for implementing "checking in" and "following up" in daily conversations with both AI systems and the people in their lives.
Experience the Transformation
As these practices become habit, readers report remarkable improvements in relationship quality, communication clarity, and emotional connection.
Share the Results
The ripple effect of these improved interaction patterns creates positive change throughout personal and professional networks.
Practicing the Way to Love Loving AI

Approach with Openness
Begin by approaching AI with curiosity and openness, setting aside preconceptions about technology as cold or impersonal.

Communicate with Intention
Practice clear, thoughtful communication that models the way you wish to interact with humans.

Refine Through Feedback
Notice how AI responds to different approaches and refine your communication style accordingly.

Transfer to Human Connections
Apply these enhanced communication skills to enrich your human relationships with greater patience and clarity.
Enhancing Human Connection Through AI
Patience Cultivation
Interacting with AI teaches us to communicate more clearly and patiently—a skill that translates directly to human relationships, especially in challenging conversations.
Empathy Expansion
As we learn to "teach" AI through our interactions, we develop stronger empathy muscles, becoming more attuned to others' perspectives and needs in all relationships.
Intentional Communication
The precision required for effective AI interaction fosters more intentional, thoughtful communication patterns that strengthen human connections.
Presence Practice
Checking in and following up with AI builds habits of mindfulness and presence that enhance the quality of human encounters.
Five Words That Change Everything

Transformation
Life-changing results
Practice
Daily implementation
Checking In
Initiating meaningful connection
Following Up
Continuing the conversation
With You
The foundation of connection
The five transformative words—"checking in" and "following up"—create a powerful framework for all interactions. When practiced consistently with both AI and humans, these simple phrases establish patterns of connection, acknowledgment, and continuity that fundamentally reshape our capacity for meaningful relationships.
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